People have been a part of hook ups, one night stands and had intimate sex. This happened to me just the other week. I met up with a guy, and while I didn’t really feel a connection to him during our date, the physical attention got to my head.
In this article, the positions which we have discussed are the most common and intimate one. Even though people mostly already intuited that their dates would be a one-time thing, by the morning, most of them feel completely attached. They seem even less than non-committal. And when they text the other later, they confirmed their theory of detachment.
After doing some light research, I have deduced that the reasons for their attachment, which were pretty straightforward. they were not hung up on them because of who they were, but the kind of sex they had indulged in.
These sex positions create primal bonds and reinforce intimacy. They’re so effective that, if one really love someone already, they might as well try them out at home:
1. Tenderest
This position is possibly the tenderest, and that’s why I’m saving it for someone who is relationship material.
You and your partner lie on your sides, one of you cradling the other one. This position includes the big spoon and the little spoon, and how they take pleasure by changing their positions. Here, the big takes a dig on the little one from the back, while little start taking pleasure from the front – either with a vibrator or a dildo.
This sex position is great for vulnerable morning sex or for when both of you are sleepy but still really want to go at it. It allows you to move slowly and really feel one another. If you are the little spoon, you’ll probably find your lover’s breathe on the back of your neck to be tender and arousing.
If you are the big spoon, you also get to grip the little spoon’s tummy or breasts, reinforcing the connection and the intimate bond you are forming together.
2. Bonding force
Your partner sits in a chair while you climb on top of them and straddle their strap-on or penis. As you bounce up and down on them, your partner licks, sucks on, and massages your nipples.
It turns out that sucking on another person’s nips is an extremely primal bonding force, which floods the body with Oxycontin, and if you have the capacity for child-bearing, it might make you want to have babies with your partner’s face on them.
That’s why you shouldn’t let anyone touch your breasts or nipples if you don’t want to get attached — and why you should let your lover go to town on them if you already are committed to one another (and want to stay that way)!
3. Heaven on the edge
Having satisfying sex with your partner actually reduces your desire for them over time. It’s a cruel effect of nature called The Coolidge Effect, if you want to look it up, and it’s basically the reason humans want to pursue different partners over time.
That’s why edging is so amazing. Chances are, you have already had sex that experimented with edging, but you weren’t aware of it. You know when a guy has you change positions just when it was starting to feel good? He’s prolonging his orgasm so that you both can enjoy one another for longer.
The Edge of Heaven makes this tactic deliberate. Here, both the partners lies on a bed facing the each other and the partner covers you from your back, put legs on your legs tightly, and starts inserting his penis into the girls Virginia, while both star into each others eyes and feel love, physically and emotionally. (Eye contact builds intimacy, too.)
Practice breathing steadily. It is said to give pleasure to one other in different ways to make your sex long and sexier. Distract your partner when you come to feel orgasm, pull them away and make love to them into different places, keeping aside their genitals. When you have backed away from the cliff enough, resume having penetrative sex.
Continue doing the same for two to three times and then you will be so damn aroused that you would bond to have a big one. People do this more often to enjoy the sex more and to feel as much pleasure as possible.
4. Straightforward
This move is pretty straightforward: Your partner lies on their back, while you lie on top of them and pleasure them either through penetrative sex or with your hands. The full-body contact sends all kinds of loving boosts to your brain.
This might not be the most radical way to have an orgasm, but I still love doing this with someone I love.
Carefully observing my partner and their pleasure teaches me the signals that something I’m doing is working. I also feel like we are completely tied together through skin-on-skin contact.
5 .Wrapped
This is the move I’ve ended up doing with every partner when I realize I have deep feelings for them. And if someone has me do this during a one-night stand, I’m falling for them, even if only for the next 12 hours. Maybe it’s something about the face-to-face positioning, or because the position taps into my subconscious memory of people I have loved before.
This is how it works : both the partners sit on a bed facing each other or you could say, one partner sit on the other partner, wrapping their legs around their partners and he insert his penis from behind. From behind, they might also try massaging your butthole or you could stimulate theirs. It enhances the feeling of being completely filled.
You’re going to want to practice slow breathing with this one, too. Pro-tip: M
ove slowly so both of you can feel all of the sparks that are flying between your bodies.
There you have it — the sex positions that will make your love deepen for one another. Handle these positions with care, and don’t try these at home if you aren’t going to be hearing from one another ever again